It was also part of his M.O. He could not--would not--be pinned down--not musically, emotionally, physically, or any other way. He was sprightly yet mysterious--and sometimes, very frustrating. You never knew which way he was gonna veer--or if he was going to veer at all. Sometimes he'd swim against the tide, sometimes he'd go with the flow--and he knew instinctively which course to take. Regardless, he always just lived in the moment.
One night, in the middle of some Rick drama--he'd promised to "try" to make it to a friend's gig then never showed up, leaving me to deal with it--Eric Andersen wisely advised me to chalk it up to "Rick being Rick." Don't be frustrated, and stop trying to figure him out. Stop trying to solve this puzzle disguised as a street urchin. "He's a troubadour," Eric said with a half-smile and a slightly helpless shrug.
We talked a lot about Rick that night and Eric shared another observation with me: Of all the scores and scores of musicians and artists he'd known or encountered, Rick, he told me, without question straddled more "scenes" than any of them, yet was part of none of them. He used the example of how Rick and Lou Reed, both dear friends of his, were contemporaries who'd crossed paths and whose friends and colleagues crossed paths, yet never quite "met." And, while Lou was identified with a certain genre, a certain scene, a certain fan base--Rick never really was. He basically just dipped a toe in to test the water.
I thought about this conversation while looking at the picture below, one of my very favorites of Rick. It's atmospheric, a time capsule. And it speaks volumes about Rick "straddling scenes." This photo was taken by the great photographer and filmmaker, Jerry Schatzberg (who shot the cover photo of Dylan's Blonde on Blonde and many other iconic photos--of Dylan and others) at Ondine in New York City. Ondine, located at 308 E. 59th Street and co-owned by Schatzberg, was one of New York's hippest and most exclusive discotheques and the happening place for rock's elite and the art world's avant garde in the mid-60s. It's where Andy Warhol and his Factory crowd--including his tragic and beautiful "superstar," Edie Sedgwick--came to see and be seen. It's where the Doors played their first New York gig. It's where Jackie Gleason rubbed elbows with Faye Dunaway and where Sonny & Cher came to hang out and chill.

(L to R): Rick Danko, Bob Dylan, Bob Neuwirth, David Blue, Venetia Cunningham at Ondine in NYC, October 1965
And it was at Ondine that a still-wet-behind-the-ears farm boy whose only school after 8th grade had been The Road drank cognac and smoked cigarettes and partied with Dylan, already the "Voice of His Generation," and on his way to becoming arguably the most significant cultural icon of the century.
Mr. Schatzberg's photo shows Rick (still known to many as "Ricky"), not yet 22, suave and clean-shaven, holding a cigarette between his thumb and forefinger in that unassuming, unaffected way country boys sometimes do, at a table with Dylan, Bobby Neuwirth, David Blue, and a young woman (you may have to click on the photo to see it entirely) who has been erroneously identified as Sara Dylan.
Mr. Schatzberg personally confirmed to me yesterday that the woman is not Sara Dylan--and he should know, since it was Sara who introduced him to Dylan in the first place. "To the best of my memory," Mr. Shatzberg told me, the name of the woman, who was a friend of his, "is Venetia Cunningham."
Stay tuned for a a full interview with Mr. Jerry Schatzberg...coming very soon.






thank you Carol for all your memories.
ReplyDeleteYes, thanks so much for letting us/me in on Rick's life. It is insightful and thoughtful.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Tim Harper
A terrific homage and retrospect into the life of the man who inspired me to pick up the bass. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteCarol ~ the photo and the memories - always in the present moment - never fading into the ethers of abstract recollection - in this mysterious, and mystical flow of past/present/future, you keep the present moment alive and well, and present. The shifting of the illusionary hands on the clock, the turning of calendar pages, does not diminish the beauty you bring to the moment with your insightful writing, your integrity, and clear intent of expression for one well loved, forever-now. Always grateful, for you and for Rick.
ReplyDeletethanks so much, Carol. So fascinating to learn about the life of such a great natural artist who was so much his own person musically. And your descriptions are so evocative. Rick's was part of an era and apart from it just like great artists have always been
ReplyDeleteThank you all so much for visiting and for taking the time to comment. I really appreciate all of your thoughts and your insight! xx
ReplyDeleteWhy is there no mention anywhere of Elizabeth Danko? Forgive me if there is and my eyes cannot find it.
ReplyDeleteyes. i have wondered myself about his family. I do appreciate the desire to keep things private, but I also wonder how his daughter , and stepson are doing and also whether any family members approve or do not approve of this website.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous #1: re mentions of Elizabeth~do you mean on this post or on the whole site? If you mean on this post, it is because Rick did not know Elizabeth then. If you mean on the site, there *are* mentions--see bio, "crash course," etc., though not many, which I will address in my second answer:
ReplyDeleteAnonymous # 2: Your hunch is correct. It is to keep his family matters private, especially with regard to his children. Elizabeth, in my experience, is and has been a very private person, and I respect that.
This site is a combination of facts (mostly music-based), anecdotes (my own and others'), recollections, and interviews. And regarding those items, everything contained here is either known by and/or has been experienced by me personally, is a known (and researchable fact), or is attributed to a source.
In terms of some other family members--Rick's brother Terry, his late brother Junior, and his nephew, Drew--they have been and may be featured here in the future, primarily (though not exclusively) in a music-related context and as their lives/work relates to Rick.
I think that if you check out pages and sites of the other Band members, you will see no (or very little) mention of their spouses and children--unless (as in the case of Maud Hudson, who is a musician, along with her husband, or Amy Helm, who performs with Levon and has her own musical career) they are also musicians or otherwise involved in the professional careers of their fathers.
Thanks for visiting--hope this helps!
Carol, I too am among the fan's that wonder about Rick's family and close friends. I appreciate your reply regarding this subject.I understad that privacy should be respected. I just wonder Carol, does his family know that after more than 10 years since we lost him that there are so many fans that will always want to hear more about Rick because we lost part of him also? The only thing that I want to add is my special thanks to you for giving his fans your beautiful stories, your pictures and all the work you do to make sure his memory is always alive. I look forward to your stories, and again, thanks so much!!!!
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